Comments on: The Best Answers to Frequently Raised Objections About Prenups http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/ Just another WordPress weblog Sun, 29 Jan 2012 21:23:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Abe http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/comment-page-1/#comment-55783 Abe Wed, 23 Nov 2011 14:42:31 +0000 http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/#comment-55783 I too, am a Christian. I'm in a marriage that's ending badly, (no, *NO ONE* ever expects their marriage to turn out bad, if so, they would not get married! However, we know many marriages do.) I didn't get a prenup, & am wishing now, that I did.... I'm having a lot of difficulty getting my stuff back from my wife, even stuff that was mine b4 we married. FYI: Yes, there's many selfish comments. When a marriage goes sour, it's nearly always because one (or both) partners were selfish, & self-centered. Love does not seek it's own (Bible---I Cor 13), but, *PEOPLE* do, so you find many marriages w/o love... Hence, these prenups are a *GOOD* thing... Also for Christians to consider: ""The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?" [Jer 17:9] I would advise everyone to do everything possible to ensure a lasting & healthy marriage, B4 they marry, & just going through & talking about the issues of a Prenup, might be a good thing... Many say they didn't know their spouse... They married a stranger... Here's your chance for full disclosure. I too, am a Christian. I’m in a marriage that’s ending badly, (no, *NO ONE* ever expects their marriage to turn out bad, if so, they would not get married! However, we know many marriages do.) I didn’t get a prenup, & am wishing now, that I did…. I’m having a lot of difficulty getting my stuff back from my wife, even stuff that was mine b4 we married. FYI: Yes, there’s many selfish comments. When a marriage goes sour, it’s nearly always because one (or both) partners were selfish, & self-centered. Love does not seek it’s own (Bible—I Cor 13), but, *PEOPLE* do, so you find many marriages w/o love… Hence, these prenups are a *GOOD* thing…
Also for Christians to consider:
“”The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?” [Jer 17:9]

I would advise everyone to do everything possible to ensure a lasting & healthy marriage, B4 they marry, & just going through & talking about the issues of a Prenup, might be a good thing…
Many say they didn’t know their spouse… They married a stranger… Here’s your chance for full disclosure.

]]> By: Aries http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/comment-page-1/#comment-53769 Aries Tue, 27 Sep 2011 02:46:14 +0000 http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/#comment-53769 CONCERNED CHRISTIAN - I'm also a Christian and you best believe I'm getting a prenup... Anything can happen and i truly believe that a prenup is the best way to go, for peace of mind. Noone goes into a marriage thinking they will get divorced but GUESS WHAT, IT HAPPENS! To the best of us..You can have Faith and a prenup because in God's eyes noone is perfect and everyone makes mistakes.. And you'd be a fool not to get one. That goes for all the 'holier than thous' out there who are nieve and foolish and think people dont make mistakes... Why would i listen to you nitwits, not sign and get screwed once i find out he's not the winner i thought he was? CONCERNED CHRISTIAN – I’m also a Christian and you best believe I’m getting a prenup… Anything can happen and i truly believe that a prenup is the best way to go, for peace of mind. Noone goes into a marriage thinking they will get divorced but GUESS WHAT, IT HAPPENS! To the best of us..You can have Faith and a prenup because in God’s eyes noone is perfect and everyone makes mistakes.. And you’d be a fool not to get one.

That goes for all the ‘holier than thous’ out there who are nieve and foolish and think people dont make mistakes… Why would i listen to you nitwits, not sign and get screwed once i find out he’s not the winner i thought he was?

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]]> By: Diana http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/comment-page-1/#comment-52249 Diana Thu, 11 Aug 2011 22:42:04 +0000 http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/#comment-52249 Before you get married, you have to consider several factors. First of all, marriage is supposed to last forever. The only ground that is approved by the Bible in a divorce is adultery. Before you get married, you should think about whether your partner is tolerable. For example, do you or your partner want kids? Does he/she show respect to whom they meet? Another factor to consider is why exactly do you like your partner. What are his/her faults? Once it comes to prenups, I honestly think that it's not worthwhile. It's not only planning for a divorce, but it shows lack of trust for your partner. It's just like saying, "Hey, I'm gonna get a prenup so that you won't take everything I've got." If you think you need a prenup, you should not marry that person. If a piece of property is yours, alone, your partner cannot take that property when you divorce. Just to let you know, money shouldn't be the point of your marriage. Come to think of it, you're never alone anyway because you have some friends you can talk to. Before you get married, you have to consider several factors. First of all, marriage is supposed to last forever. The only ground that is approved by the Bible in a divorce is adultery. Before you get married, you should think about whether your partner is tolerable. For example, do you or your partner want kids? Does he/she show respect to whom they meet?
Another factor to consider is why exactly do you like your partner. What are his/her faults?
Once it comes to prenups, I honestly think that it’s not worthwhile. It’s not only planning for a divorce, but it shows lack of trust for your partner. It’s just like saying, “Hey, I’m gonna get a prenup so that you won’t take everything I’ve got.”

If you think you need a prenup, you should not marry that person. If a piece of property is yours, alone, your partner cannot take that property when you divorce. Just to let you know, money shouldn’t be the point of your marriage.

Come to think of it, you’re never alone anyway because you have some friends you can talk to.

]]> By: Concerned Christian http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/comment-page-1/#comment-51879 Concerned Christian Fri, 29 Jul 2011 06:22:30 +0000 http://www.prenuptialagreements.org/prenup-objections/#comment-51879 This is why the bible says that " The Love of Money is the Root of ALL evil" Marriage is not about any of that.... first of all its just stuff... its material.. you can not take anything with you... i miss the days were a man believed in taking care of his house... a lot of the comments on this page are selfish... If you feel you need a prenup than you should not get married... You know pro- prenup people always want to make fun of Christians for holding on to our faith... But the idea of a prenup is as old fashion as a dowry .... For those women marrying anf signing them .. I advise you to keep your day job and do not be a stay at home mom.... cause you will get screwed in the end... My thing is when we are at the alter do not promise me for richer or poorer and all that if you do not mean it... I wonder if people who sign prenups say the same vows as the rest of us.... You really should not cause you do not mean it ,.... Marriage is for love and commitment period.... Do not fall so deep in love you can not see straight ... a lot of divorce could be avoided if people paid attention to the signs upfront .... If your husband is a whore hopper or an abuser BELIVE me those signs were there long before you said I DO ... If your wife is the type to take you to cleaners ... trust me the signs were there... Prenups are an easy way out for people who do not plan to live up to their end of the bargain.... LISTEN ... if you never prayed before... pray for your mate .... ask God to show you their true character,.... ask this long before you even meet someone... Trust prayer changes things.... I would never marry a man that believes that while we were married anything he made was only his.... what a selfish idea... Sounds like some of you worship money... Having money helps.. but it aint everything .... God bless you ... and i hope i did not offend anyone This is why the bible says that ” The Love of Money is the Root of ALL evil” Marriage is not about any of that…. first of all its just stuff… its material.. you can not take anything with you… i miss the days were a man believed in taking care of his house… a lot of the comments on this page are selfish… If you feel you need a prenup than you should not get married… You know pro- prenup people always want to make fun of Christians for holding on to our faith… But the idea of a prenup is as old fashion as a dowry …. For those women marrying anf signing them .. I advise you to keep your day job and do not be a stay at home mom…. cause you will get screwed in the end… My thing is when we are at the alter do not promise me for richer or poorer and all that if you do not mean it… I wonder if people who sign prenups say the same vows as the rest of us…. You really should not cause you do not mean it ,…. Marriage is for love and commitment period…. Do not fall so deep in love you can not see straight … a lot of divorce could be avoided if people paid attention to the signs upfront …. If your husband is a whore hopper or an abuser BELIVE me those signs were there long before you said I DO … If your wife is the type to take you to cleaners … trust me the signs were there… Prenups are an easy way out for people who do not plan to live up to their end of the bargain…. LISTEN … if you never prayed before… pray for your mate …. ask God to show you their true character,…. ask this long before you even meet someone… Trust prayer changes things….
I would never marry a man that believes that while we were married anything he made was only his…. what a selfish idea… Sounds like some of you worship money… Having money helps.. but it aint everything …. God bless you … and i hope i did not offend anyone

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